I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Passing of a loved one never comes at a good time. You guys seemed so made for each other.
Tim ("Drunken Jack Flash" as I originally remember him) was one of the prominent and prolific posters when I joined the board. Since he was on "West Coast" time, I ended up "conversing" with him over many late night board volleys. I'm sorry that I never had a chance to speak to him in person, much less meet him. From everything that I could gather about him, he was witty, charming, funny, honest, and nice. Not to mention loving, as you can attest. Fine qualities that are often lacking in this world.
All of us on the board were witness to you guys coming together and spreading joy (and "10 High") throughout the sun-drenched Southern California coast. It's a tragedy that it was cut so short.
I wish that I could add something other than "be strong" and "cherish all that you've had".
Chin up, kiddo.
"Martinis are a balm against a sordid world, a shield against all that is sullied, rushed and coarse"